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+ATTACHMENT: SMART AND STUPID RESEARCH

Posted in borderline mother, Trauma and Its Consequences, tagged abuse, anxiety disorders, attachment disorder, borderline mother, borderline personality disorder, brain development, child abuse, child abuse prevention, depression, disorganized disoriented insecure attachment, dissociation, dissociative identity disorder, genetics, infant abuse, malevolent world, maltreatment, mean mother, mental illness, posttraumatic stress disorder, PTSD, recovery, trauma, trauma memory, triggers, violence, witness abuse on December 31, 2009 | Leave a Comment »

Smart research includes measures of degrees of attachment. Stupid research doesn’t.

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+EXCLUSIVE INTELLECTUAL PROPERTY OWNED BY SEVERE ABUSE SURVIVORS

Posted in borderline mother, Trauma and Its Consequences, tagged abuse, anxiety disorders, attachment disorder, borderline mother, borderline personality disorder, brain development, child abuse, depression, dissociative identity disorder, empathy disorder, healing, mental illness, mothering, posttraumatic stress disorder, PTSD, recovery, trauma memory, triggers on December 30, 2009 | Leave a Comment »

Telling our stories of severe infant-child abuse and trauma in a new way, using new words and new thoughts means that we are owning the exclusive intellectual property that belongs uniquely to us as survivors.

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+TRAUMA SIGNALS THROUGH ATTACHMENT

Posted in borderline mother, Trauma and Its Consequences, tagged abuse, anxiety disorders, attachment disorder, borderline mother, borderline personality disorder, brain development, child abuse, child abuse prevention, depression, disorganized disoriented insecure attachment, dissmissive avoidant insecure attachment disorder, dissociation, dissociative identity disorder, empathy disorder, healing, infant abuse, mental illness, posttraumatic stress disorder, PTSD, trauma memory, triggers, witness abuse on December 29, 2009 | Leave a Comment »

The presence of unresolved trauma communicates itself through insecure attachment patterns, and it doesn’t need words to speak! Trauma speaks a body-based language even newborns understand.

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+ATTACHMENT – HOW WE ARE WHO WE ARE

Posted in adult attachment disorders, borderline mother, Borderline Personality Disorder, Child Abuse, Depression, Dissociation, Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), Trauma and Its Consequences, tagged abuse, anxiety disorders, attachment disorder, borderline mother, borderline personality disorder, brain development, child abuse, child abuse prevention, dissociation, dissociative identity disorder, empathy disorder, infant abuse, maltreatment, memory, mental illness, posttraumatic stress disorder, PTSD, trauma memory, triggers, witness abuse on December 28, 2009 | 1 Comment »

Nuts and bolts of secure and insecure attachment — what is most important seems to be most complex. It’s time we figured this out! The quality of our life depends on it.

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+INSECURE ATTACHMENT BREEDS CHILD ABUSE

Posted in borderline mother, Trauma and Its Consequences, tagged abuse, anxiety disorders, attachment disorder, bonding, borderline mother, borderline personality disorder, brain development, child abuse, child abuse prevention, depression, disorganized disoriented insecure attachment, dissociation, dissociative identity disorder, empathy disorder, infant abuse, maltreatment, mean mother, mental illness, posttraumatic stress disorder, PTSD, recovery, trauma bond, trauma memory, triggers, witness abuse on December 27, 2009 | Leave a Comment »

What would I do with any proceeds from a book should I write and sell one? Educate about insecure attachment and child abuse.

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+LEARNING STYLES AND LONELINESS

Posted in borderline mother, Trauma and Its Consequences, tagged abuse, anxiety disorders, attachment disorder, bonding, borderline mother, borderline personality disorder, brain development, child abuse prevention, depression, disorganized disoriented insecure attachment, dissociation, dissociative identity disorder, empathy disorder, infant abuse, mean mother, mental illness, mothering, posttraumatic stress disorder, PTSD, trauma, trauma memory, triggers, violence, witness abuse on December 26, 2009 | Leave a Comment »

Link here to an online ‘test’ to show our personal learning styles — along with writings about our feelings (and states) of isolation, loneliness and being alone.

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+TRAGEDIES OF CHILD ABUSE REFLECTED IN STORIES

Posted in Trauma and Its Consequences, tagged abuse, anxiety disorders, attachment disorder, borderline mother, borderline personality disorder, brain development, child abuse, child abuse prevention, depression, dismissive-avoidant insecure attachment, disorganized disoriented insecure attachment, dissociation, dissociative identity disorder, empathy disorder, healing, infant brain development, learning, mean mother, memory, mental illness, mirror neurons, posttraumatic stress disorder, preoccupied ambivalent insecure attachment, PTSD, trauma memory, triggers, witness abuse on December 24, 2009 | Leave a Comment »

I cannot disconnect the abuse of my childhood from my memories of Christmas. Here I talk about mirroring, empathy, compassion and ‘feeling felt’.

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+SOMEONE AT BERKELEY, HEAR MY PLEA!

Posted in Trauma and Its Consequences, tagged abuse, anxiety disorders, attachment disorder, borderline mother, borderline personality disorder, brain development, child abuse, child abuse prevention, depression, dismissive-avoidant insecure attachment, disorganized disoriented insecure attachment, dissociation, dissociative identity disorder, empathy disorder, infant abuse, mean mother, mental illness, posttraumatic stress disorder, preoccupied amvibalent insecure attachment, PTSD, trauma, trauma memory on December 23, 2009 | Leave a Comment »

This is the letter I wrote today to Dr. Dacher Keltner at University of California, Berkeley asking for any help I can get with my work about the consequences of severe early infant-child abuse and Trauma Altered Development through unsafe and insecure attachment conditions.

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+CALM THE CRYING BABY — IMMUNE SYSTEM STIMULATES VAGUS NERVE TRAUMA ALTERED DEVELOPMENT

Posted in Trauma and Its Consequences, tagged abuse, anxiety disorders, bonding, borderline mother, borderline personality disorder, brain development, child abuse, child abuse prevention, depression, disorganized disoriented insecure attachment, dissmissive avoidant insecure attachment disorder, dissociation, dissociative identity disorder, domestic abuse, insecure attachment disorder, malevolent world, maltreatment, mean mother, memory, mental illness, mothering, posttraumatic stress disorder, preoccupied amvibalent insecure attachment, PTSD, reactive attachment disorder, recovery, sadness, trauma, trauma bond, trauma memory, triggers, vagal nerve, vagus nerve, witness abuse on December 22, 2009 | Leave a Comment »

How did my mother turn into such an unfeeling, out-of-control, violent, abusive Borderline Mother? Immune system interaction with the vagus nerve changes infant-child development within malevolent environments.

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+FANTASTIC LINK — FANTASTIC INFO ABOUT THE HUMAN BRAIN!!!

Posted in Trauma and Its Consequences, tagged abuse, anxiety disorders, borderline personality disorder, brain development, child abuse, disorganized disoriented insecure attachment, dissociation, empathy disorder, infant abuse, posttraumatic stress disorder, PTSD, violence on December 22, 2009 | Leave a Comment »

I just found this incredible FREE GIFT to the public online — what we MOST need to know about ourselves! Check this out!!

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Archive for December, 2009

+ATTACHMENT: SMART AND STUPID RESEARCH

+EXCLUSIVE INTELLECTUAL PROPERTY OWNED BY SEVERE ABUSE SURVIVORS

+TRAUMA SIGNALS THROUGH ATTACHMENT

+ATTACHMENT – HOW WE ARE WHO WE ARE

+INSECURE ATTACHMENT BREEDS CHILD ABUSE

+LEARNING STYLES AND LONELINESS

+TRAGEDIES OF CHILD ABUSE REFLECTED IN STORIES

+SOMEONE AT BERKELEY, HEAR MY PLEA!

+CALM THE CRYING BABY — IMMUNE SYSTEM STIMULATES VAGUS NERVE TRAUMA ALTERED DEVELOPMENT

+FANTASTIC LINK — FANTASTIC INFO ABOUT THE HUMAN BRAIN!!!

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